Sunday, July 6, 2008

The Law of Allowing

不知道大家有这样的经验。东西不见了,就很努力的寻找,但是还是找不到。等到放弃了,还是忘记了,那样东西就会自动出现在眼前。这个是我从小就有的经验,因为以前东西一直乱放,找不到的机率很高。 后来发觉这个情况印证了一个很对的道理,就是the law of allowing, 很多事情我们越想它,越在意的,反而是得不到。反过来,如果我们可以把那件事情放下,相信总有办法可以解决的,事情反而会比较顺心。

这个印章,就是我找了一个星期多,都没有头绪它被我放在那里。当我开始放弃,打算回去再去弄一个新的时候,我过后才在车里头找到。又再次验证了这个道理。

失而复得的印章 :)

4 comments:

  1. hmmm, law of allowing?
    promoting the power of your stamp? :)
    imagine millions in transaction with a single stamp and signature of yours, huh?
    I can only imagine the words. haha

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  2. 哈~如果要說迷糊丟東西我如果要講第二名因該沒人敢跟我爭第一~^^
    我也很常把手機放到冰箱然後就找不到的情況
    不過有些情況不見就找不回來,比如買東西結帳時東西有拿錢包卻放櫃檯忘記拿走,這就保證找不回來囉><
    所以該妳的就是你的不該妳的強求也沒用,有些事情反而妳放下對自己比較好!

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  3. James: You should get a translator la, I'm not promoting my stamp. I'm talking about the law of allowing, which means you'll get more of want you want, if you can stop putting attention/focus on it. Erm..hard to explain here...

    Ling:手机在冰箱?怎么可能?你不觉得我比起以前放下很多了吗?呵呵:)

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  4. Yeah, J2kfm dun pretend to be smart. Ha ha! I also always have this kind of experience. When u r so eager to find it out, u cant reach it. Whatever, jz try ur best, if not, relax n rest for a while, the thing will appear in front of u later, jz like magic .:P

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